Friday, May 30, 2014

Road Trip 2013: Part 2

This time last year I was frantically and excitingly preparing for our big, three week road trip to visit family on the other side of the country.  

Here is my post on how I prepared and here is my post on the first half of our adventure...now it's about time I get to that second half!!

After leaving Daniel's grandparents (on mom's side) in Wisconsin, we headed to the Land of 10,000 Lakes.  One of Daniel's uncles lives there, so he let us crash at his place for one night, and gave us a quick tour of Duluth the next morning, before we headed onto Fargo, ND.   

Here's Selah with Uncle Peanut,
as he is lovingly called,
with the Enger Observation Tower behind them.
This was our view from the the top of the tower.

The sun sparkling off the water was just beautiful,
I could stare at it all day!


Walking around Enger Park and soaking in all the beauty.







After a walk around the park we headed downtown for a quick walk on the beach and lunch.  I wanted to walk that boardwalk by the beach forever, but there were bellies to feed.  




A quick ride on the four-wheeler before hitting the road!

Our next stop was a place I know very, very well, it's a place my mom would drive my brother and I to every single summer, without fail, it's a place I know I will be greeted with huge smiles and even bigger hugs, it's a place where the upstairs is filled with warmth as sunlight streams through open windows, and laughter as family and friends catch up over savory home cooked meals and delectable desserts, it's a place where the basement is filled with a comfortable coolness that invites cuddles on the couch with blankets after a successful day of fun and play and the quiet chatter as we rehash the day's events as the TV drones in the background, it's the place where many games of hide-and-seek and school were played when cousins spent the night, it's the place I learned what a computer and KidPix was, it's the place common rules were left in Texas and I was told I could pick any pop I wanted in the fridge in the laundry room or any treat from the glass candy dish on the coffee table, it's the place that contained a tiny storage space under the stairs that I was certain was built solely for me and my imagination, it's the place I would pound on the piano, rock on the wooden rocking chair, run on the treadmill (for fun!), look down the super cool laundry shoot as we watched random objects fall to floor below, and peek out the triangular hole in the stairway to catch a glance of what was taking place below, it's the place I would be caught up on family news through recent pictures and stories, it's the place we would prepare for shopping outings or discuss the latest flick we should go see or plan our trip to the lake, it's a place that reminds me of all things wonderful.  

This trip, I knew, was going to be a little different than I had remembered though, the key players were many miles away back in Texas where my grandma was fighting the fight of her life (she's still winning that fight by the way, still going strong!)  Their absence would leave a gaping hole, and although other family members stood in that gap and made our time there extra special, I think we could all sense the missing essential gears in the reunion machine.  I walked through their empty home with a heavy heart that first night, just Daniel and I and the kids staying there for the first time in history, and it was all just so wrong, so very, very wrong to have them so far away for such an awful reason, I mean, if they were on a cruise in the Caribbean or taking a tour of Italy, that's one thing, but a hospital in Houston, that's another thing entirely...they were very missed.  And although I was so very sad, I was given a little gift while pacing through those familiar halls and rooms, I was given the chance to be extra observant, extra keen on all the personal touches of that home, and I took it all in, not knowing the next time I'd be back.  I took time to study every picture, every trinket, every piece of furniture, every handmade painting, every nook and cranny, and even every cane in my grandpa's collection, and I allowed the memories to flood back so I could hopefully hold onto the smells, sights, sounds of that special place forever.  

This is in my grandparents room, and these are my grandparents...
I've seen these pictures many times before,
but this time I really saw them, and my, aren't they stunning those two?!
If there was ever any doubt as to my grandparents' priorities,
I think this picture sums it up nicely, they literally cover the entire
fridge with pictures of family and friends.
You catch a glimpse of family any time you need a cup of water...or a cheese stick,
always familiar, smiling faces looking back at you on nourishment missions.
I love it!!

Owen's birthday happened to fall on one of the days we were there, so, of course, we threw a party, of sorts.  

Every party needs balloons

The only other child guest, my cousin's little guy Gavin,
he made the party complete!

And, of course, there was pizza and cake!
Selah thought the candle was edible, and took a big bite,
so that was quite entertaining,
it is rather deceiving with the bright colors and all!
We even got to Skype with my grandparents!
A wonderful celebration!!
Here are the cousins, it is tradition to
take a picture in this very spot, every single trip,
so we couldn't let my grandma down, by golly!
Our stay was simple and relaxing and just what we needed before heading toward our next destination.  Our last stop in Fargo was to a place we would often go when I was little, it was this alien themed restaurant, way different than I remembered but the kids loved it, after getting over the creepy green guys everywhere. 

Had to grab a quick shot of the whole fam before heading out,
I sure love this group God brought together!
 
Playing games at the restaurant.

3,2,1 BLAST OFF!

After our lunch with the aliens we packed everyone back into the vehicle and drove about 8 hours northwest to Plentywood, MT.  

Sometimes, when driving long distances,
you just need to stick your head in a bag
This is also a place I hold very dear, although many of my memories with this set of grandparents take place on their farm; running on haystacks, digging through wheat piled high in silos, spinning on a straw buncher (thank God I'm still in one piece!), climbing the chicken coop, learning to drive a truck at the age of 12, riding bikes on gravel roads, finding and nurturing baby kitties, directing talent shows, gopher hunting, Canasta playing, and oh so many more activities that would satisfy any child's sense of adventure.  We weren't staying on the farm this time around though, we were staying at my grandparents' home in town, which brought about its own adventures and cherished memories.

Seeking out all the fun toys stored away.

Future farmer?

This picture just makes my heart burst with love and gratitude!

I just can't even tell you how thankful I am that we had the
opportunity to be there, with them, with our kids...
so special!!

Playing some music for Selah, and sounding as beautiful as ever!

Perfect little hideaway for these two munchkins, they just
kept pulling out all kinds of fun stuff!
On our too-short visit we took a tour of the small town, played Canasta and Rummikub (whic I lost, that Grandpa, he's sharp!), ate scrumptious, gooey carmel rolls for breakfast, lunch, and dinner (because, why not??), saw yet another thriving garden full of fresh fruits, veggies, and herbs, gathered materials and ideas for sewing projects, reminisced with my grandma as we looked at old photo albums and, I once again, indulged myself in the sights, sounds, and smells of such a special place.  

First taste of my grandmother's home cookin',
good stuff! 

Owen helping push the cart on our trip to the local grocer.
Cute little gazebo we stopped and ate ice cream sandwiches

Look! Right there at that handsome guy in the middle!
My brother made the local newspaper!!
You're famous, Casey, famous!
After a couple nights in Plentywood we headed toward our final destination, Billings, MT, home of the Whites and Browns! 
 
Part of our view on the road,
one of God's many masterpieces!
I expected this last stop was going to be quite a treat, and it didn't disappoint!! 

For two weeks Selah and Owen were basically hanging out with people twenty times their age, and, although they loved the extra attention and getting spoiled rotten (it must be some secret code people in their golden years follow when interacting with young children to induce sugar comas and forget the word "no"), they were itching for some playmates their own age, and the perfect little girls were there to fill that need!  Not to mention, there were some pretty awesome company for Daniel and I as well!!   


Peaches n' cream with two sweet girls...
don't be alarmed by the band-aid,
it's what happens when you play doctor

GIRL TIME!!!
paper dolls, dress up, coloring, puzzles, games
OH, the JOY!!

Getting some good old fresh air
You can never learn yoga too young,
especially when the teacher is Miss Hannah Joy!!

Some trampoline jumping...
seriously, if this isn't a kid's paradise I don't know what is!!

Grandma's turn to join in the fun!!

Making a mess (flour and shaving cream I believe),

and loving it!
Daniel pulling the girls in the wagon through the sprinklers,
their own personal water park ride!
Selah's turn to pull!

Owen did NOT know what to think of these sprinklers,
he just stood there, in this very position, while water
sprinkled this little body

Figuring it out


In the end, I think he enjoyed himself,
he's just struggling to express that joy fully...
One of my absolute favorite days was the day we headed to the lake for a boat ride...it was BEAUTIFUL, freezing, but BEAUTIFUL!!!! 

This view!
It's just unbelievably gorgeous!!

These two!
They're beautiful!
And they make me smile!
We were so happy to have Grandma Susie and Grandpa Jeff join us in Billings! 

  Selah made us breakfast one morning, with a little help ;)


And, of course, we couldn't leave without celebrating Owen's belated birthday and Selah's upcoming birthday...when there are birthdays, there are parties!!

Presents



and cake!

It just doesn't get any better!

We spent a fun evening with my Aunt Janet and Uncle Mike!
Owen was diggin' the toys!


When on vacation,
shirts are optional.

There was so much more going on during this week than I could capture in pictures, like good conversations and spending time with family, playing games, watching movies, eating at my favorite pizza place, watching Selah join in a gymnastics class in the same gym I practiced while I lived there, witnessing the craziness of a man walking across the Grand Canyon on a rope (crazy!!), getting a glimpse of my brother's bachelor pad and his scruffy friend Oliver (Oliver is a dog, just to be clear), painting rocks, going on a penny walk, and much, much more!  The week was jam packed with FUN! 

Unfortunately, all good things must come to an end, and the time eventually came to say our teary goodbyes and head on our way home.  

Whew! It was so hard to say goodbye, and step into that car, not knowing the next time I'd see any of these wonderful people, we all just live too darn far away! But, as I looked at our cramped car, with Selah looking through a book and Owen playing with something noisy, and Daniel's strong, steady, reassuring presence driving our family back to our home, I was filled to the brim with joy and gratitude. I would never want to live this life with any other set of people. I have such an incredibly blessed life, and I knew I was going home to the wonderful life I enjoy in Texas, that was a comforting and pleasant thought.  

My heart will always be scattered across the country, but my goodness, how lucky am I to experience that feeling, the feeling of knowing there are so many amazing people I'm fortunate enough to call family all over the place, thinking about me, caring about me, praying for me, loving on me, no matter how far apart we are or how long it's been since we've last seen each other!  I'm one lucky gal and I'd never trade any of it for anything!!

This was literally my dream vacation, my words just don't do it justice, my feelings can't possibly be sufficiently described on here in the way they deserve.  If I had to pick between a week long cruise or an all-inclusive stay at some tropical paradise resort or some other magical vacation destination or this one I just described, I'd choose this trip every single time, hands down.  Trust me, those other trips are tempting, and I do want to experience them at some point, but nothing beats the love and warmth you experience after visiting family, nothing can compare! So glad to have these memories to cherish for a lifetime!!


A year later I'm still pinching myself in disbelief that we actually did this trip, and it's been good for my soul to relive it through writing, it was all just so perfect!  Thanks to all those who made this vacation possible and showed us one heck of a time, all while making us feel so loved!    

   







  

  



         

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Another Project Done

I always feel so accomplished after finishing one of these bad boys, because it takes me FOREVER to pick the perfect pictures, perfect background, perfect text/font... I drive myself crazy looking at every single detail way longer than necessary when in actuality I'm sure the item I chose the first time was just as fine as the twentieth item I switched it to...but here it is :) DONE! It sure is fun looking back on all these memories we shared together as a family... especially because Selah is the same age in these photos as Owen is right now...bizarre! It's sometimes hard to remember Selah was ever that little, also weird to realize Owen will one day not be this little...how did I get Selah {mostly} successfully to her current age, HOW will I get Owen there?? I guess time does it for me, but still...weird!!    



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Sunday, May 11, 2014

Happy Mother's Day!!

So, it's been quite awhile since I've posted anything, but I wanted to write a quick update on this special Mother's Day! 

First of all, we celebrated x3 today because...

We're expecting!!!!

Baby T #3 is due mid-October, my first fall baby! We're feeling extra crazy this time around and have decided to not find out the gender until D day! Really, I should say, Daniel is feeling extra crazy, because this is all his idea, but I'm on board because I'm totally prepared for either (benefits of having one of each), I like to be prepared, I freak out if I don't feel prepared, very, very important.  The surprise should be fun, and so far, the waiting and not-knowing hasn't been too torturous, but our 20 week sono is coming up soon, and that will be the real test of my willpower...I'll keep you updated! 

The second reason it's a special Mom's Day is because my mom is in town and we are actually celebrating together, been a few years since that has happened!! My sweet, dear grandpa is here also and I'm so excited to have them here with us this weekend! Very special indeed! 

And lastly, I write, to wish all you hard working mamas out there doing there very darndest to nurture and love on and care for little ones and grown ones alike a Happy Mother's Day, and hoping you feel appreciated and loved every day out of the year, not just one Sunday in May...if not, take a Mirror Moment, stand and look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you're amazing, beautiful, incredible, and all things wonderful because you are, and God thinks you are, and really, that's all that matters!  

Now this girl knows how to have a Mirror Moment! 
  

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You

It's February!! And that means it is the month of loooove and of probably one of the most controversial holidays ever...Valentine's Day!

Some people despise this holiday, claiming it's only purpose for existence is for greeting card companies to make some extra mula.

And while that may be so, there are those who love this holiday and embrace the chance to shower those they care for with extra affection.  

I happen to fall into the latter group.

My love for this holiday has grown over the years and here's why:

  1. My mom always made this time of year super special and always had little thoughtful gifts, cards, and treats waiting for us.  She also always made her homemade red velvet heart-shaped cake for after dinner dessert.  She took the time to make us feel extra loved and special.  
  2. It comes at a time were I'm trying unsuccessfully to wind down from all the holiday hubbub from the previous couple months (except January, January is just kinna lame and boring) and so I JUMP at the chance to get to celebrate something and steer all my leftover holiday energies.
  3. There are SO many fun things you can do with hearts and pink and chocolate!!! 
Last year I hosted a Valentine's Day Party for some friends, and, since I didn't have this blog up and going yet, I will share it with you now.


This was the food table!
The cucumbers and carrots were cut like hearts,
don't do this, just don't...
takes way too much time than it's worth, trust me! 

The Treats!!
The champagne glasses (from DollarTree!)
are filled with M&Ms with a cupcake on top.
And there are heart-shaped jigglers, pink lemonade,
and chocolate covered pretzel rods.
Selah got to help with most of it. 

The Crafts!
Lots of paper, ink pads, stamps, stickers, and markers!

This was the sample Selah made.
I cut up a bunch of tissue paper and then printed off
these hearts onto white card stock and wrote "I love you to PIECES!".
Guests could glue the tissue paper in the middle of the heart
and give as a gift to dad or grandma or whoever.

These are bookmarks.
They say, "THUMBody loves you!"
and you can put tiny thumbs into ink pads,
and press them on the paper.
If you put two thumbprints together you can
make a heart :)
There ya go!
In case you plan to throw a little shindig this year, hopefully these are some helpful and fun ideas.  I can't claim any of them as my own, pretty sure I found them all on Pinterest somewhere...

This year I'm not hosting a party, BUT, I do have some fun ideas planned for the coming weeks.

Yesterday we made some heart decorations, and, the best part, it is MESS FREE and the tiniest of hands can do this!! 

Cut paper hearts out of card stock,
preferably, but construction paper works too.
Tape them to the inside of a tub or bucket
or anything that will close up tightly. 

Squeeze in some paint (sadly, we didn't have much pink :/)
You really only need maybe three or four blobs, I went a little
overboard and the hearts were a little soggy.

Throw in some random toys you have laying about, anything
plastic, solid, easy to clean, with some fun shapes to them.
(Small, plastic balls, play food, blocks, rattles, etc.)

Put the lid on tight and let the kids go to town
shaking it all around, maybe put on
some fun music to dance to while you do this part.


Open the lid and take out the toys, but leave
the hearts in there to dry.

Ta-Da!! Then you can display how you wish,
on your mantel, like we did last year...

Or, you can put them on your wall...
like I did this year, as part of our art wall display area,
or anywhere you like really.

We recently had friends over and I covered my table in paper (you know, that paper on a roll made for easels?) and gave the kids a bowl of red paint and toilet paper rolls bent to look like a heart and let them go to town...the toilet paper rolls weren't as durable as I had hoped so I brought out the heart-shaped cookie cutters we have and that worked much better.  But, if all you have on hand are the toilet paper rolls, they work too! Here is where I found the idea and the explanation of how to get it to look like a heart. 

We played with/ate heart shaped frozen strawberry juice. I did something similar with plain ice and food coloring but it stained so badly, so the juice worked much better...didn't stain, and, delicious! 

I also printed off some Bible verses focused on love (onto hearts, of course!) that I found here, that we will try to memorize throughout the month.

I also plan to paint heart-shaped sugar cookies when another friend comes for a play date this week.  I found this idea here during Christmas time but didn't get around to it.  The paint is just evaporated milk and food coloring and you paint it on before you bake the cookies.  Really looking forward to doing this one, should be fun, and yummy!! 

For family/friends/teacher/anybody gifts I am making these magnets, 

I may be giving the surprise away here,
but that's ok, surprise!! You may, or may not,
be getting these in the near future :)
I've tried making these before, but failed miserably.  Learn from my mistakes, and I'll show you what to do and what NOT to do!   

First, you'll need scrapbook paper (particularly ones that have small patterns printed on them or just plain, solid colors because the paper with big prints that are spread out won't work) and some of those clear stones you can find at DollarTree.  You might also want stickers if you want to add a letter sticker to the paper or whatever you want really.

Then, trace the stone onto the paper.  You want to trace each stone individually (instead of using one stone to trace a bunch of circles) because they have slightly different shapes.  I would trace one stone, cut a square around it, then set the paper and stone pair aside together until I was ready to cut them all out at once.  

After you have them all cut out and matched up, you can start on the modge podge.  The key is to put modge podge on the stone first, then put the paper on the stone, let the modge podge dry completely, then put modge podge on the paper.  

Once everything is dry and you have a nice glossy finish on the paper, you can stick on the magnet, and you're done! The first time I used a magnet that was way too weak, then I used a magnet that was way too strong, so I finally found a happy medium, at WalMart for $1.28, and looks like this:

     
Also on the agenda for this month is to make some Valentine cards and treats to take to one of our local assistant living homes we've visited a couple times previously and chat with the residents a bit...they sure love having cute, energetic kids around! 

I am also in the process of making Selah an activity to work on reading.  I printed off hearts that I found here, and cut them in half.  I chose five words (hat, cap, dog, cup, and tree), then did two different activities with them.

I wrote out the word on one side and taped on the
matching picture on the other side.
I also did letter boxes on one side,
where the size of the box matches the size of the
letters that make up the word. 

(I'm sure there's an actually term for this, 
but I'm not sure what it is at the moment)

I've read/heard that learning the shape of a word is extremely beneficial in learning to read (I actually have a degree in teaching, and should know all the ins and outs about this, but since I haven't ever used said degree yet, this is the best I can do).  The idea behind it is that very few words actually sound how they are spelled, take "are" for example or "said", and therefore the sound-it-out method doesn't always work.  So learning the shape of the word can be helpful in memorizing those words that don't quite follow the rules.

Well, I think that about wraps it up!!  Thanks for reading!! 

Happy Valentine's Month, enjoy loving on all those special people in your life!!